Still, even with this flaw this book gets 4 stars. Some of the comments are okay (for example her confession that she has problems with the SM-fantasies, and her reasons for nevertheless including them), but many I prefer to skip not only in reading, but also in re-reading and re-rereading the book. Not only do these explanations bore me to death, I also do not believe in them. Where 'My Secret Garden' and 'Forbidden Flowers' look at the fantasies from the viewpoint of women's sexual emancipation, and look at the women's personal (sexual) histories to find the 'reasons' for the fantasies, 'Men in Love' goes into Freudianism to explain the fantasies. But still, as a whole this book scores lower. Also, a good general book on our sexual proclivities based on evolutionary biology is THE EVOLUTION OF DESIRE by David Buss.īeing a man, these fantasies should appeal to me more than those in Friday's other erotic fantasy collections. You may find this a very useful read if you are trying to understand your own or other people's fantasies in an in-depth way. Her narrative is certainly thought provoking and I like the fact she brought sexual fantasy out of the realm of shame and guilt.Ī great book that explains the psychology of sexual fantasy is YOUR EROTIC MIND by Jack Morin. While I don't necessarily agree with Nancy Friday's line of thought some of the time, her interpretations are creative and in most cases plausible. What I like most about the book is the psychological interpretations of various men's fantasies. If you are looking for erotica written by males, this is a good place to start. I thought I heard it all before, but there were some shockers in here for me! On the other hand, it captures the nature of the male's fascination for highly visual, genitally stimulating and sometimes extreme sexual practices. In other words, you are going to read about some unusual practices and kinks. Some of the fantasies are extremely graphic and some might say rather unusual. The content of this book is more graphic than Nancy Friday's other books. This book is different because it focuses on men's fantasies and as such, it is a useful lens for women into male sexuality and the different shapes it can take. Typically, the clients that come to me with shame about their fantasies are women and often I recommend some of Nancy Friday's books about women's fantasies. These readers know what I’m talking about.I am a personal growth coach who sometimes works in the area of sexuality. And it’s a valuable rite of passage, even when you’re screaming obscenities into a payphone like a complete moron. It is 3-10 weeks of pure peer pressure, made from concentrate. You get to shed your overbearing parents and liberate the dipshit teen within. My oldest kid hasn’t gone to sleepaway camp yet for various reasons, and I have implored my wife to send her for at least one summer because (A) I want these kids out of the house, and (B) as one of my friends said about his kid at camp, “I know they’ll come back a different person than when they left.” Summer camp is an indelible experience for so many kids because it represents the first time they’re really, truly out on their own.
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Then again, I’m not sure why we did anything. I’m not quite sure why we ran from, you know, a phone call.
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And whenever a real person answered the phone, we would scream I’M A MOTHERFUCKER WITH A BUFFALO BUTT, hang up the phone, and then run away. So, at night, we snuck down to the phone and started dialing random 1-800 numbers, hoping to either get a live operator or a live girl at the other end of the line. I don’t remember playing any soccer whatsoever at that camp, but I very much DO remember the camp was at a boarding school, and that we got to stay in the dorms all week, and that the dorm had a pay phone that was the only phone in the whole joint. My most vivid memories of summer camp all feature me being a teenage shithead.